Opening Balances – An Introduction

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Dirty Valjean – An Introduction

I have been studying the dynamic relationship between genders and seduction for over a decade now. A lot of guys feel embarrassed to ask about advice when it comes to dating, as they feel like they should know this. This is the furthest thing from the truth. Like any form of knowledge, some people run across the solution sooner than others. Doesn’t make you a better person. In fact, I found that the people that take longer to “figure things out” tend to be the most successful in presenting their best self and landing the most dates. I mainly work with helping men as that was the perspective I had (being a male), but in future segments I’d like to incorporate some of my female friends who have been through the game to provide some feminine insight.

Why Meta-Game?

I decided to write here since I know a lot of people that enjoy video games that have had bad luck with dating. They think just because their hobby is considered “nerdy” that they can’t land girls. The opposite of that is true. I mean my room is stock full of Amiibos and all sorts of nerdy memorabilia. It’s a pretty nerdy man cave. One of the best pick up guys I ever knew picked girls up using a D20 a prop (for those of you unaware, this is the famous die from Dungeons and Dragons). Being a nerd does not disqualify you with women. Your own perceived reality will do that for you. If you think something you’re doing is unattractive, then on that principle it is. But… If you learn to love every facet that makes you the person you are, you are well on the way to leading a much more attractive life.

Focusing on Inner Game

I have been out of the game for a while now. Thanks to Seduction Community I found the love of my life, and have been happily married for 6 years now. It took a lot of sarging (approaching groups of random women) to finally find the person that was for me. If you think that seduction ends at marriage, you are sadly mistaken. All of the components that make up a proper seduction are still largely at play. The notion of approaching people you don’t know and starting conversations with them seems terrifying, well it was for me too when I started off. As it is for all men that I knew that I took this journey with. I promise you that the end result is worth it, and in the future I will try to recruit some of the guys that are still actively sarging to present that viewpoint. I mean, if you’re looking for the best job out there, you can’t settle for the first thing you run across right? So why would you settle when looking for a life partner, if you won’t for something of less significance like a job? Or a car? Like everything, you need to explore your options out there!

I will make every attempt to write a new article every week. In the meantime, feel free to shoot me any questions you may have for me to

Till then,



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